Men or women has this happened to u or anything similar really need some insight specially if ur a shrink lol?

I am a man who's has had plenty of gfs an I don't have any problems with women other than them bieng crazy(jus playin ladies) but sometimes I'm kinda shy about approaching women but other than that no problems I am kinda aggresive in relationships an bedrooms just shy about approaching them but heres my real question I've had five or six women aging from 19-40 none were slutty or anything like that cept 1 some I knew an others not so much but I started touching an right from the start wich is really unlike me I'm usally very respectfull one girl used to work where I got my haircut we would say hi an crack a joke every now an then but didn't really know each other or talk then my barber quit so I let her do my hair one day an she's cute an when she was cutting my hair we were chit chattin but I was rubbin her thighs an between her legs an feelin her an I was shocked I was doin this an more that she was letting me since then I've had a few encounters with women where right from the start I'm touchin an grabbin an don't know why or what makes me pick who I do it to an even more puzzling to me is every woman I've done this to NOT1 has ever stopped me or said don't do that or anything like that any ideas? Sorry so. Long just tryin to give all info also don't know if it matters but I'm white an all these girls where black cept 1 was puerto rican an its not like I was singleing them out that's just my preference in women